• Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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    6 days ago

    this but straight instead of gay, i don’t care about gender but man there aren’t a lot of cute guys around here, they’re all either masculine or they’re douchebros who think logan paul isn’t a despicable asshat…

    where tf are the twinks?

  • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    Here’s the wildest part, I prefer women.

    I think it’s just because my last long-time partner was a man, so a lot of my current friend-group has only ever known me in a homosexual relationship. Also, a lot of my friends are gay, so it’s easier to be “one of the gays.” Gonna be real weird to be called gay when I’m in a technically het relationship.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.mlM
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    6 days ago

    I’m a bisexual gen-x man. For my entire single life I was told that I was just gay and “hadn’t come to terms” with it. Even after marrying a woman, my wife still got shit about how one day I’d realize I am gay and leave.

    I never understood the need to label or pigeonhole everything. Maybe we, all of us, are just people who love. Who we love should be nobody’s business.

    • flicker@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 days ago

      I’m an xennial demi woman and we didn’t even have the term “demisexual” when you and I were young. Trying to explain to my bigoted mother that I’m not attracted to a meat suit, and can’t define what I’m attracted to, while having a girlfriend was… awful!

    • WillStealYourUsername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      6 days ago

      My interpretation of the meme here is that the cat uses gay as an umbrella term similar to queer a lot. I’m sorry about all the shitty biphobia you’ve gone through, though :(

    • kabi@lemm.ee
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      6 days ago

      the author accidentally flipped the speech bubble

      this is what it is supposed to look like

      correctionlied