If you don’t like it, why bother to comment on it?

Like other comments said, speak with her.

Question for you though, have you started comparing a lot of things to being neuro? I have friends that did this when they found out. It’s great that you’ve found out something, but for them that doesn’t change a thing. For them you as a person are still the exact same (except if you’re heavily sedated , that might influence behaviour a lot). Question is, do you want them to understand you or the concept.

But again, go talk with her. If something is wrong in a relationship, there are always two at fault. Fault is going quite far, but often it’s not understanding or wanting to understand each other, misreading signals and who knows what.