Sauce pls?
(I am mighty tickled by the speech patterns and expressions on display here, and wish to know in what language or part of the world I may observe young women speaking in this manner, so that I may reserve flight tickets on the morrow)
ETA: wtf is wrong with me lol
Seconding this! I’ve been living with depression long enough that the coping mechanisms are automatic (for better or worse), so it’s easy to forget that not everyone may have had the time to learn them. (I’m guessing I may not be the only one?)
There’s a big overlap between ‘coping with dysphoria’ and ‘coping with depression’, but because I learnt the latter long before I became aware of the former, it never even occurred to me to offer advice on that topic!
Hi, closeted trans girl here… just wanted to say that I really hope you keep going - because I want to come out into a world with people like you, who carried the same weight as me and still made it to age 30 and beyond. That’s something I can only imagine in my best moments, so frankly you’re already my hero just for making it that far <3
I’m not DMing because I doubt I have much more to offer than my words here, but if you send me one I’ll probably get over myself and reply anyway :3 (may take a few days though, I’m the snail-mail type)
This. I fucking hate being in the closet. But at least my life makes sense now. At least I know what I’ve been hurting from.
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Just like my history with my mental illness affects a small populace. Why should the world have to bend to my problems?
Because you matter, and your problems matter >:3
I know it can be hard to feel that way, but the way I see it is - after everything they’ve taken from us, we can’t let them take our self-worth! Most cis people and most abled people I know aren’t ashamed to expect the world to work for them; we don’t get points for expecting nothing for ourselves.
I would never expect the intolerable, ignorant, racist, or cruel people to bend their beliefs for me. Its a waste of my energy to want that.
I don’t expect them to do that. I don’t need them to do that either. I need them to shut up and fuck off. You know, the exact same thing they want the people they oppress to do >:3
As for it being a waste of your energy… that’s your call, but personally, I wouldn’t be able to keep going if I couldn’t imagine a world where the bigots consistently lose. I haven’t yet “found my tribe” with people who understand and accept me, and it’s not likely to happen in the near future; so the hope that a better world is possible, and that I could help build it, is basically all I have left - and yet, it’s been enough to get me this far. Who knows, maybe it’ll do something for you.
Especially because you shouldn’t give a fuck about how people perceive you. You should be whoever you are and not care about labels.
Unfortunately we are social creatures with a need for acceptance and belonging. We can survive without those things, but it isn’t really living. Take it from someone who spent most of their life living like a hermit.
Having someone recognize your gender is one of the most basic kinds of acceptance. Social interactions tend to feel pretty hollow and superficial when you know that the other person doesn’t know/care who you really are. (Again, ask me how I know 🙂)
that’s honestly pretty impressive, how did you find time to eat
Hi, Centrist! I’m Offended!
Hyprland’s community has a history of toxicity: https://drewdevault.com/2023/09/17/Hyprland-toxicity.html
god dammit, yall are making me feel peer pressured into unblocking her